Clarify Your Thinking

Are there things you’d like to change your mind about?  Did your values serve you early in life, but no longer do? Are you clinging to the values you were given before you knew you could choose them for yourself? Remember, in every case, you are the ultimate decision-maker in all matters involving you. What will you do now?

CONCLUSION

Being consistently committed to feeling, thinking, and choosing (in that order) allows for certainty about at least one thing in a rather uncertain world. And that is: even if nothing else goes according to plan, you can feel satisfied you made the best decision you could, using the best information available to you at that time.

The highly subjective nature of schemas, along with the countless individual differences among people, means there can be no one size fits all, no good or bad, no right or wrong answers, per se. The healthiest choice for one person may look completely different for the next. There’s a fundamental goal at work here. Use everything you learn to objectively synthesize the unique information and insights you accumulate along your way.

Maybe you’re looking to implement some sweeping changes in your life. Perhaps you’re in need of just a few minor adjustments here and there. Either way, the Feel. Think. Choose. In That Order. process was created to promote your confidence to experience a level of clarity you haven’t previously experienced.